You can actually design your look and your life. These go hand in hand. You truly can’t redesign your look without seeing changes in your life. Likewise, when you design your life you must consider what it means to be you and how you express yourself.
What is Designing your Self? It is an “Outside-In” and an “Inside-Out” process!
When you make a change on the “outside,” positive or negative, it impacts you and others who see you. And likewise, with the “inside.” Anytime you a have a shift in your beliefs, thoughts, feelings, or actions, it will be experienced and expressed by you and usually others perceive it! This is great because it means that you are able to impact how you look, feel, act, and affect others.
What does this news about your Inner-Outer Self mean to you? First, if you are not actively engaged in improving yourself, there is always room for improvement. Second, even if you are developing your Inner Self and enhancing your Outer Self — there is always more that can be done. Either way, it means you can be even more in control of your internal experience, your external expression and your life!
Designing Your Self is a systematic process to maximize the potential of any human being. It adds much to your knowledge of your self and your potential – in fact an entirely new perspective on who you are and how you can be “in harmony” on the outside. It also describes the Inner Aspects of you (how you think, feel, and behave) which incredibly is connected to your physical, visual characteristics.
The Designing Your Self System
This revolutionary approach that outlines the criteria about what specifically is best on any person and why. For the first time ever, here is a system for you to consciously and intentionally choose everything from your eyeglasses to your shoes, so that the final result is right for you. It could be the look you’ve always wanted. And it may be even better than what you’ve considered possible!
Designing Your Self optimally requires a clear understanding of precisely what is ideal for you. This applies at the macro and the micro levels. The macro is the big picture message you express in your look. To make it excellent, powerful, and congruent it has to be carried through in the details of everything you choose. Remember any outfit has dozens and dozens of details, so if you don’t want haphazard or random results, you’ll need a plan to put it into reality.
Finally, looking your best need no longer left to whim, luck, or chance! You can learn how to do it anytime you want.
As a unique human being you have characteristics and features that can be enhanced or sabotaged. Just as an architect, engineer, chef, photographer, and interior designer all use principles to create something visually appealing, there are principles you can use to for your best looks. A great creation or artistic expression rarely comes about purely by accident. The notion of design implies that something is done on purpose with a plan to achieve a desired outcome.
You have most likely seen bad or poor design. Have you ever driven by a building or house that was so ugly, you wondered “Why would anyone build that?” So, you’ve also seen buildings, projects, photographs, and homes that didn’t quite work visually. There was something about some of these creations that just wasn’t good, beautiful or desirable. I suspect the principles of good design: harmony, balance, or unity were ignored or violated. To get consistently good results required principles.
These powerful principles put you in the driver’s seat with your hands on the wheel. You can finally have access to the personalized information, tools, skills that you’ve needed. By applying these principles, your look and expression can turn out the way you want it to for the life you’ve wanted. Not only that, the process can be fun – and it’s all about you.
Designing Your Self is a multi-faceted project and we’ll be going through the steps together. The process is not the same for every man or woman. Any more than you would imitate someone else’s life, the process of Designing Your Self is not copying someone else’s look. It requires looking within to discover what you want to express and what can project congruently. Realistically and believably, nobody can be anything and nobody can be everything.
We may want to be “perfect,” yet we know that we’re real, living beings with assets and liabilities. In spite of any “imperfections” you perceive, ask yourself:
- What’s possible for me?
- What kind of person am I and how do I express that?
- How do I want to be seen and described by others?
These empowering and valuable questions can guide you in developing a new vision for yourself. Once you have a new vision it literally gives you something to positively focus on that you can live into. As you become comfortable bringing yourself out you will find new possibilities for designing yourself and your life.
